An Unmarked Grave No More: "A Grove of Trees Has Been Planted ....."

An unmarked grave no more.

A grove of trees has been planted in Israel in Loving Memory of Aqsa Parvez and All Victims of Honor Killings Worldwide. The journey that got us here is all here.

Congratulations, Atlas readers -- to each and every one of you who contributed to the Aqsa Memorial fund (please click here). You did something wonderful. A grove of trees has been planted, made possible by your kindness, your empathy, your love. When I saw the plaque, I cried. The plaque at the grove in American Independence Park in Jerusalem will be up early next year. And the ground breaking for the Aqsa Parvez Peace Park in Pelham, Canada will be in early fall.

I am proud to walk with each one of you.  G-d bless you. Each and every one of you. The fight for these girls is more critical than ever -- hear their cry.

Honoring the Victims of Honor Killing -- The American Thinker

Last December, when I read that Aqsa lay in an unmarked grave, I felt sick. I started a memorial fund to get her a headstone. But I had no idea how difficult and ugly it would be simply to honor a teenage girl in Canada who just wanted to live free -- and how eagerly Western non-Muslims would aid and abet the family's efforts to dishonor her in death as they did in life.

Readers of my weblog, AtlasShrugs.com, opened their hearts and their wallets, and contributed $5,000 for a headstone for Aqsa. Robert Spencer of Jihad Watch joined the effort, and we approved a design for a headstone that read, "In loving memory of Aqsa Parvez, Apr. 22, 1991-Dec. 10, 2007 -- Beloved, remembered and free." All was going according to plan until, after much silence, Meadowvale Cemetery in Brampton, Ontario, where Aqsa is buried, advised me that the family (yes, the family that murdered her) had refused to "sign off" on the headstone. The director of the cemetery said: "The family wants changes and is planning on coming in to see me. They did not book an appointment yet but I hope to see them soon."

Of course, the family never came, and when we inquired as to purchasing a plot near Aqsa's body, we could not. Not a tree. Not a rock. Not a bench. All the plots were owned by the Islamic Society of North America. I tried to contact the family at that time, but they would not take my calls -- I spoke to the them once, but they pretended not to speak English. And they were adamant: the family refused to allow the headstone to be put on Aqsa's grave, and according to the cemetery, could remove it if it were placed there by others.

But those of us who had contributed to the Aqsa Memorial Fund were determined to make sure that Aqsa would be memorialized. We checked into other locations, made plans, only to see them canceled at the last minute out of ... fear. We checked into the arboretum at the University of Guelph in Ontario, but a university official wrote me to say that "no matter how worthy, a memorial to Aqsa Parvez would draw much public attention and would thus be inconsistent with current use of The Arboretum."

But not everyone was ready to cower before Islamic anti-woman violence. Scott McLeod, the fire chief in Pelham, Ontario, proposed a resolution honoring Aqsa to City Councilor Sharon Cook -- and she went to work getting it passed. The Aqsa Parvez Memorial will be erected in Pelham this summer! A granite bench will be inscribed: "In loving memory of Aqsa Parvez, Beloved, Remembered and Free."

And in addition, there is the Aqsa Parvez Grove we are planting in American Independence Park in Jerusalem, Israel, where the plaque will read: "In Loving Memory of Aqsa Parvez and All Victims of Honor Killings Worldwide."

The memorials in Pelham and Jerusalem are the first indication that in the Free World we are not going to stand by silently while the Islamic world brutalizes women and treats them as worthless trash. They are two small steps toward widespread resistance against honor killing in the West and elsewhere.

Comments

[Gordon MacDonald]

Beautiful

[jj]

pamela:

quite lovely, indeed.

john jay

[Tempus Fugit]

I hate to nitpick but shouldn't the word "honor" have some distancing quotes around it?

My heart goes out to any woman born in an Islamic society.

[Josephine]

Such a beautiful tribute. Well done.

[Judith]

There should be a scholarship in her name.

[IndieJones]

You inspired us to contribute to this beautiful tribute. Thank you for all the time and effort you put into this. It's beautiful.

[Yidwithlid]

Honoring Aqsa the way you have is the Ultimate good deed, because, She can never say thank you,,This just proves the Size of your heart...very HUGE

[Rebel Rebel]

Thank you. Only your determination and leadership could get this done.

[Un:dhimmi]

Brilliant work, Pamela. This is a beautiful memorial; to Aqsa and strong testament to the fact that, to paraphrase Robert, Judaism and Christianity are religions of peace - and Islam isn't.

[al-Kidya]

What an absolutely beautiful tribute for a beautiful girl who had her life snuffed out needlessly when she should have been enjoying the best years of her life.
Thanks to you Pamela, and Robert and all those involved.
I know she and the many others will never be forgotten.
A living memory...
"Instead of the thornbush will grow the pine tree,
and instead of briers the myrtle will grow.
This will be for the LORD's renown,
for an everlasting sign,
which will not be destroyed."

I must now make the trek to Pelham to meditate there.

[camnc4me]

Hi Pamela,

If only her family had cared about her 1/10th the amount you've shown. The continuing indifference, silence, and tacit support reference a woman's lot in life in the Islamic world is more than proof this ideology is demonstrably anti-woman. As a father of two daughters I find this memorial very touching, and yet another line in the sand clearly saying, "We value our daughters. We value our women. We value freedom and liberty. This line... You shall not cross."

You may have your detractors, for whatever reason, but I would stand with you and your ilk long before the equivocators who sue for peace with an enemy that despises peace, and longs for our destruction.

V/R
Lance Hemmert

[Timur]

Now, not only will Aqsa Parvez not be forgotten, she will be remembered by thousands of people. And to throw dirt in their faces, her memorial has been erected not just in Canada but also in ISRAEL by JEWS AND CHRISTIANS WHO CARED MORE ABOUT HER THAN HER OWN FAMILY.
Sic Semper Islamists.